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France, 1200 A.D.

Wash your hands before you dip them into the serving pot.
       


America, 1800s

Never laugh at your own jokes.

Holland, 1530 A.D.

If your friend uses bad manners, point it out kindly and when you are alone.

France, 1200 A.D.

Use a thick piece of bread for a plate; when you're finished eating, give your gravy-soaked "trencher" to the poor for their dinner.

America, 1800s

Children must not eat greedily, cram their mouths full, smack their lips, tilt their chairs back, or drop their knives on the tablecloth.

America, 1800s

Never use nicknames in public.

England, c. 1650 A.D.

Take your own knife, fork, and spoon when you travel because inns do not provide tableware.

Pilgrims in America

Wait until you are finished eating to scratch yourself.

America, 1800s

Always insert the stopper in your ink bottle if you are called away from your desk.

Holland, 1530 A.D.

Never lick your greasy fingers; wipe them on the tablecloth instead.

America, 1800s

At the table, do not cough or breathe into your neighbor's face, fidget in your seat, whisper secrets, or drum the table with your fingers.

France, 1200 A.D.

If you are not using your knife to eat, keep it in its sheath.

America, 1800s

Memorize books, lectures, and sermons so that you can quote from them during conversation, always remembering to give credit to the authors.

China, c. 400 B.C.

Use silver-tipped chopsticks; if your food has been poisoned, the silver will turn black and serve as a warning to you.

America, 1800s

Older children must not mortify wee ones by reproving them loudly at the table.

Holland, 1530 A.D.

Do not act like a glutton or wolf, trying to be the first to reach into the pot.

America, 1800s

Never invite people over unless you really want to spend time with them.

England, c. 1400 A.D.

Do not dip your meat into the salt bowl; instead, use your little finger to sprinkle salt on your food.

Holland, 1530 A.D.

Keep two "pinkies" out of the serving pot. Three fingers are enough to get what you want.

America, 1800s

Children must wait to eat until all the adults are served.

Holland, 1530 A.D.

Take the first thing you touch; do not fish around in the pot for a bigger piece.
 

Sources

  1. Giblin, James Cross, and Thomas Y. Crowell.
    From Hand to Mouth: Or, How We Invented Knives, Forks, Spoons, and Chopsticks & the Table Manners to Go With Them.
    1987.(Note: Some of this information came from the book
    On Civility in Children.
    The book was published in 1530 by the Dutch thinker Erasmus, and was written for a ten-year-old French prince who later became King Henry II.)
  2. Youth's Educator for Home and Society.
    Copyrighted by L.W. Walter, 1896.
  3. Penner, Lucille Recht. Eating the Plates.
    Macmillan: 1991.
  4. Aliki, and Thomas Y. Crowell, A Medieval Feast.
    1983.

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